How The Power Of Attraction Can Help You Get What You Want?

“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become” said Jim Rohn, one of the world’s leading motivational speaker, philosopher and entrepreneur. Every great achiever knows that certain mental laws exist by which you can turn all your dreams into reality. The law of attraction is one of the most important to understand, use and abuse! Like attracts like. “For intelligence cleaveth unto intelligence; wisdom receiveth wisdom; truth embraceth truth; virtue loveth virtue; light cleaveth unto light; mercy hath compassion on mercy and claimeth her own; justice continueth its course and claimeth its own.” This ancient scripture summarize what the law of attraction is all about. It is attracting to your life whatever …

How Self-Made Millionaires Overcome Procrastination

Do you want to know how the super successful overcome procrastination? One fascinating hallmark of all highly motivated millionaires is their strongly held conviction that they will succeed. Whatever it takes and despite any challenges that crop up. How do they overcome procrastination? People who are inspired by their dreams believe with certainty they will achieve their goals even if they do not know how all the details will work out. This sense of certainty is due in part to their empowering belief system and also to the way they represent their goals to themselves inside their minds. Have you ever got excited about your goals and then slowly over time lost your enthusiasm? Most people do. The difference is …

How Do You Win at Home Organization? Think Small!

Many people have written to me about their personal goals and one I see quite often is “Get organized,” specifically, “Get the house in order.” When I ask what obstacles are in their way, the most common response is “procrastination.” By the time it gets to the point of showing up on a goals list, household organization has been neglected so much that the results have culminated into a mountain so big even the bravest of us want to run in the opposite direction! Procrastination is often the by-product of fear. We may perceive something to be so big or unattainable that we become overwhelmed and immobile. Getting organized doesn’t mean you have to take on that mountain in one …

Adult ADD – A “Disorder” or a Secret of Success?

According to the new book The DaVinci Method (www.davincimethod.com), the symptoms of Adult ADD are really the symptoms of abundant energy and creativity. The author, Garret LoPorto, points out that the vast majority of wildly successful entrepreneurs, great leaders, innovators, artists and trail-blazers, all have the “symptoms” of adult ADD. While explaining the genetic cause of ADD/ADHD, the author gives great insight into the so called “disorder” and how it can be used as a strength in many situations. According to the author, “The human genome project says ADD/ADHD is genetic. While only about 10% of the general population has this gene most of the self made rich and famous have the ADD/ADHD gene. Now why is it so that …

A Sudden Career Change Overview

It may seem like the “end of the world” to you, especially after you’ve given EVERYTHING to your employer. Today, you’ve been terminated and it feels like a Mack truck has just run over your body without a thought or care. Did they have a security guard “watch” you clean out your desk and shut-down your computer? After a few years or more, it’s one of those demeaning experiences with BIG employers….. some even provide escort service to your car. Regardless of the years, it’s not a good, warm fuzzy feeling for any of us. With that behind us…. let’s begin to think about “reality” and how it may just be your BEST day. I know, you’re seeing a DARK …

A Simple Effective Tool To Get And Stay Organized

Often we are in overwhelm because we are holding too many things in our brain. We are trying to make everything a priority and get it done now. When really we can eliminate 60 % of those things get more accomplished and be more successful. If you answer “yes” to three or more of the questions below it’s a good bet you need to get your life organized and put an end to being stressed out a good deal of the time. Do you find yourself feeling frustrated that you never have enough time to do the things you really enjoy? 1. Do you go through most of the week feeling hurried, hassled, out of control? 2. Are there any …

A Little Testosterone Goes A Long Way

In June we celebrate Father’s Day, a day when it’s ok for all men to be a guy. Scratch, sniff, or click, it’s all acceptable. When it comes to men, I’ve been around plenty. Starting with being surrounded by guys in engineering school, then my 10 years at AOL and now as an entrepreneur, I’ve had lots of opportunity to interact with and observe men. I’ve come to appreciate some of the ways men operate that serve them well in business and in life. “What?!” I hear some of you saying. That’s right, but read on. I’m not about to adopt ALL of men’s behaviors. No way! I like my female attributes. And, besides, I can’t be a guy nearly …

A Lesson in Letting Go

Do you hear yourself saying? When I have enough money, I’ll… When I go on vacation, I’ll… As soon as I find the right partner, I’ll… When the house is clean, I’ll be able to… When I can afford a better car, I’ll… When this project is over, I’ll… As soon as I get more clients, I’ll… I can’t leave work, or I’ll… When my kids are grown and moved out,I’ll… How much of your life do you put on hold? During coaching sessions, people share their “I’ll’s” with me all the time. The most popular justifications are that they are waiting waiting for the money or the time to magically open up. Tracking the reasons over a ten year …

A Better Approach to New Years Resolutions. . .or Any Resolution

WHY DON’T RESOLUTIONS WORK? Let’s face it: the truth about traditional New Years resolutions (and resolutions in general) is that they don’t really work. Here is why: Most resolutions are little more than fancy-sounding “shoulds,” or, at most, good intentions. Good intentions by themselves rarely result in lasting change! They merely signify that we wish we had more motivation, readiness or willingness than we yet have. This is why making a resolution based on good intentions alone is a sure path to feeling inadequate, guilty, shameful, hopeless, or stupid later… once you realize you didn’t succeed in making your resolution come true. Fortunately, there IS a way to greatly improve your chances of having your resolutions come true. There are …

48 Things to Remember About Living Your Dream

You have one, don’t you? A dream? Of course you do. We all do. Whether your dream is big or small here’s some advice on Living Your Dream. 1. You can be sure it’s a dream and not a fantasy if your dream involves serving others in some way. 2. You’re never too old to start living your dream. 3. Living your dream will allow you to be the best you can be and use your natural gifts, passions and talents to the fullest. 4. Living your dream will give you energy, even if your dream requires you to work harder than ever before. 5. Dreams are never too big, even if they start out feeling that way. You will …

10 Tips to Help You Ace the Interview and Get the Job

The interview is the “beauty contest” part of the job search process. Interviewers get to compare candidates by asking them similar questions and comparing the answers. Being just the right person for the job won’t help you if you blow the interview. Here are ten tips to help you come out of the interview with a job offer. 1. Show responsibility by arriving on time. Nothing sets you off on the wrong foot more than arriving late for an interview. No matter what reason you have, it won’t completely erase the impression that you are disorganized and irresponsible. 2. Show confidence through a strong handshake, a pleasant expression and an upbeat manner. Although you may not feel particularly confident, it’s …

10 Tips to Cope with Negative Emotions at Work

It’s a fact of life – if you want to succeed in business, you need to know how to interact and communicate effectively with your employees, business partners, vendors, prospects, and customers. As a small business owner, this might involve rapid shifting from one type of language to another. For example, how you’d explain your expectations to your employees might be different than how you’d convey these to your business partner or potential client. As we all know, sometimes language breaks down, and communication grinds to a halt. This can leave the owner feeling irritable, angry, frustrated… and with a desire to vent to his/her employees or staff. While there may be instances that such sharing would be appropriate or …

10 Tips to a Stress Free Holiday

“The stress-free way to enjoy the holidays is to plan, take one step at a time, and have a sense of humor.” Beth Tabak Can you feel the holiday jitters beginning? Suddenly there it is right around the corner. Relax! Take time to plan well now and ease into the holidays with a big smile. Grab a journal and pen, and let’s get started. Reminisce over previous holidays- In your journal create a column for What Works and another for Not That Again. Under What Works list the activities that bring you joy, come naturally, and click into place. Under Not That Again list your challenges. Jot down the things that drain your energy and bring you down. What can …

10 Ways to Overcome Procrastination: The Challenge for Tomorrow!

Did you realize that as much as 47% of the time we spend on-line has nothing whatsoever to do with our work? In 1978 15% of the population stated that they do procrastinate somewhat. Only 1% admitted to chronic procrastination. In 2002 the numbers quadrupled! 60% of people stated that they experience mild to moderate procrastination in their lives and 6% stated that procrastination ruled their lives! In this era of “distraction overdose”, make the decision to overcome procrastination by applying some or all of the following techniques. 1. Live by the Law of More Effort. As you accomplish an important task, you will feel a surge of energy and enthusiasm. Completing the task will trigger the release of endorphins …

10 Ways To Kick The Procrastination Habit

A survey (by the University of Chicago) suggested that those who relish challenge are more likely to live up to 10 years longer than those who spend their lives inhibited by timidity. Trying to realize our ambitions, even if we don’t always meet them, is preferable to not having the courage or motivation to take the risk. So not making any resolutions because we fear that we’ll break them is having a defeatist attitude, as we allow procrastination to become an insidious habit which stops us from leading more fulfilling lives. The following offers 10 ways to kick the procrastination habit! 1. Personal values development. Take the time to find out what you really want in life, what your personal …

10 Warning Signs That You’re Ready for a Career Transition

1. You dread getting out of bed and going to work. But suppose you were in a job or profession that feeds your spirit. Just imagine how exciting it would be to jump out of bed and step right into it every single day! 2. You’re exhausted, whether you’ve had no sleep or seven to eight hours of sleep. Your perception of life in general can often be skewed when you’re not rested. So it’s important that you have the energy and vitality to enjoy your life. You also need energy to enhance your productivity. Your ideal profession or job needs to give you an energy rush, not drain you. 3. You watch the clock at work, longing for quitting …